I have always rebelled against the statement that “I don’t like to be judged.”
I like to be judged. How can I estimate people and choose friends if I don’t judge their actions with my values? I expect no less from others. But I understood about the wrong kind of judgement, a little.
I leap to conclusions about people so easily. And accept friends’ judgements as my own. So I lack empathy. A girl I dismissed as egoistic proved to be nice and friendly. A person whose gait I laughed at has a health problem which causes it.
I must change. I must be more careful while judging and more tolerant. Tolerance is the key word.
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